At a trial this weekend (more about that later) I had a little run-in with a fellow competitor …
Jayda is very adept at dealing with people and other dogs. She is not afraid of people or dogs, but she is VERY environmentally sensitive, and was EXTREMELY stressed about the trial environment (more about THAT later too). I do mean “extremely” – she was hypervigilant of everything that was going on and horribly nervous most of the weekend, poor girl!
I had taken her over to visit some people we know for a minute, and this Other Person’s dog came charging over to her, glued his nose to her butt and wouldn’t take a hint when she tried to avoid him by walking away. He was pretty much pushing her around in circles on the end of his nose…
Normally I would let her handle it, but she had enough to cope with so I gently intervened (didn’t even touch the other dog, just got in his way and shooed him back to his mommy).
At which point, his owner got all huffy and told me (in a rather superior tone) “Don’t do that! HOW’s she going to LEARN about other DOGS ???!!!”
‘Scuse me???
1) She knows quite a lot about other dogs, thank you, and she doesn’t particularly like dogs who can’t take a hint. You’re lucky she was so concerned about the environment or your dog might be missing a nostril or two.
2) Since when does your freakin’ dog have unlimited rights to be rude to mine? My dog has the right to say “no”, and so do I!
Bryce can be a match for anyone in the “rude dogs” category – I keep an eye on him and ask other dogs’ owners if they mind before letting him invade their space. I’m also quick to apologize if he oversteps his welcome – not everyone appreciates his “style”, I don’t take it personally.
3) How DARE you tell me how to raise my kids???!!!
Jackass!
HAHAHAHA!
Everyone is an expert in their own minds!
Glad you got it off your chest?
PS Has Jayda been spayed yet?
Yes, it feels SO much better to vent :).
Planning to spay her after this season – as far as I can tell, she’s not coming in and the dog bothering her was neutered, so I don’t think THAT was it … more likely something related to how nervous she was … (anal glands or something…)
No it is not that. I was wondering if spaying might help her relax. I find that sometimes the spaying mellows their moods.
Would be great if it did! I have a seminar with her on 12/8, I’m planning to schedule it right after that.
Already trying to plan how to keep the girl who’s always standing on her hind legs and who either leaps into my arms or jumps from about 3 feet away to get onto my porch (why use a step when you can jump?) to keep from hurting herself after being spayed! (I bet she’s going to be a real pain with her stitches too – she self-grooms a LOT!)